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Episode 241: 3 Ways Your Ego is Preventing Big Growth

September 23, 2024

I am joyfully coming to you from the beachside today! You might hear the ocean in the background or my kids playing in the waves, but that’s just the sound of joy filling my world. We’re at our beach house, and lately, it’s been our weekly refuge. The beach brings me so much happiness and inspiration. Every time I’m here, creativity strikes.

Understanding the Ego’s Impact

Over the last few weeks, I’ve had multiple conversations pointing me in this direction. Ego is something I’ve struggled with over the years, and I haven’t met a single client who hasn’t faced it. Identifying and understanding ego’s role can significantly impact your growth. It’s not just about personal awareness; it’s about recognizing how ego might be slowing or even halting your progress.

We all have an ego. It’s about understanding its role and when it gets into the driver’s seat of your life. It’s not typically a question we dig into, but maybe we should. After years of battling my own ego, I’ve realized it’s time for a tough conversation. The growth ceiling you might be facing or the recent struggles could be more about ego than failed strategies or bad luck.

The conversation around ego isn’t just negative. Ego, when managed well, can serve as a protector at the right times. The great differentiator between those who excel into a life of freedom and joy and those who don’t, is whether the ego drives the bus. Today, let’s uncover the three ways your ego might be blocking your growth and what to do about it.

1. Waiting to Be Discovered

One of the most effective ways ego hinders growth is through the mentality of waiting to be discovered. I had a conversation with a dear friend who felt stuck because she thought if people wanted her, they would ask. She didn’t want to face rejection or have to prove herself repeatedly. But sitting back and waiting keeps you playing small.

The reality is, this wait-and-see approach is ego-driven. It thrives on external validation, making you passive and preventing you from creating opportunities. Reflect on opportunities you’ve been craving. Have you taken proactive steps towards them? Are you putting yourself in proximity to those who can open doors for you?

2. Fear of a Bruised Ego

Another significant barrier is the fear of a bruised ego. Many leaders hesitate to take big actions or aim for audacious goals because they fear falling short. Especially when you already have something to lose, it feels like a personal threat. But the greater threat is the regret of never having tried.

Focusing on the bigger mission rather than short-term wins helps reframe failure as part of the journey towards your vision. Courageous leadership means taking bold actions despite fear. Developing resilience through facing difficult tasks regularly builds the emotional strength needed for significant growth.

3. Unwillingness to Let Your Guard Down

The third way ego blocks growth is through an unwillingness to admit struggles. This desire to maintain an image of success or invulnerability keeps you from seeking help and feedback, which are essential for growth. It’s about breaking down those barriers and being honest about where you face challenges.

Regular self-assessment is crucial. Do you have time for self-reflection and contemplation? Asking tough questions can lead to powerful insights. Surround yourself with trusted advisors who can hold up the mirror and help you see clearly. Normalizing the difficulty of leadership helps you realize that challenges are part of the journey.

Master Your Ego for Unprecedented Growth

Your ego can either be a shield protecting you or a barrier that holds you back. Choosing vulnerability, embracing failure, and building a support system unlock your potential. Take ownership, embrace the long game, and develop the resilience to face challenges head-on. Mastering your ego leads to freedom, prosperity, and joy that most leaders only dream of.

Thank you for tuning into this conversation. I’d love to hear your feedback. If this resonated with you, please share it. Let’s bring these important conversations to more people. And if you haven’t yet, please leave a review—it means the world to me and helps us grow.

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