- Seeking validation. Many leaders are seeking validation in their leadership from others: their customers, their clients, their followers on the market. They believe that this is filling them up and confirming that they are a leader, when in reality it’s draining them because they’re seeking validation in the wrong places.
- Taking vacations. In reality, we should focus more on creating a life with enough stillness and rejuvenation so that we’re not desperate for a vacation to escape what is. If you are filling your tank regularly, you won’t be so desperate for a vacation and when you do take a vacation, it will actually be restorative instead of coming back stressed because you’re walking right back into the reality you escaped temporarily.
- Being addicted to to-do lists. Instead of focusing on our to-do lists, we should be creating our to-be lists. You have a lot you have to get done in a day. That’s the reality of the life that you’re living. So, you always have a to-do list and it’s never fully done, but what if you started creating more to-be lists and that’s where you put your focus? Start thinking about the leader you need to be in order to be fulfilled and making the impact you want to make, how would that person look and what do they need to do? Who you are becoming is so much more important than what you are doing.
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